by Elizabeth McBride
My daughter recently began Irish dancing. At the end of her performance season, we invited friends and family interested in seeing her dance to a “Friend’s and Family Show.” My cousin, who doesn’t drive, took an Uber from a neighboring state. Her friends and their mothers came as well. Even my old high school friend and his new wife showed up to support my daughter. That afternoon was a wonderful reminder of how much it means to show up for each other.
Being present is what builds community. Whether you’re making a difference in the world, supporting a ministry at church, or cheering on your friend’s daughter’s dance group, it all matters.
Life and work can sometimes get in the way. Money or transportation can be obstacles, too. It’s not always easy to show up, but when we do, no matter how big or small the invitation, we support those around us and let them know they matter.
This July, Women of the ELCA (WELCA) will host the largest event for ELCA Lutheran adults that is held. And it’s women-centered. It’s for you. A group of strong, joyful, and dedicated women will gather in Des Moines to connect and support a ministry led by women who stand up against human trafficking, teach and involve others in racial justice advocacy, and work hard as leaders in their churches and communities.
When we show up, we remind others that they are valued. Their efforts matter, and their beliefs connect with the wider community. Helping others feel valued also reminds us of our own worth. We remember that we are chosen, loved by God, and called to share that support with those around us.
A friend once told me that you never forget the people who showed up for you, whether in good times or tough ones. When we show up, we tell our friends that they matter. That we are aligned with this organization’s mission. This Mother’s Day, let us remember to honor the women and mother figures who have shown up for us.
Elizabeth McBride is the director for communication and Intergenerational programs for Women of the ELCA.
Love this post!! See you soon