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Pick a word to guide you through the coming year
by Terri Lackey

1.9.2020
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A beloved Chicago Tribune columnist, a Southerner like me, presented a one-word challenge recently: Pick a word that will “guide you through the coming year.” Because it did not originate with her*, I feel perfectly comfortable borrowing the idea and sharing it with you.

Tribune columnist Mary Schmich’s one word in 2020 is slower.

“All we have to do is breathe more slowly, and we know that slowing down is a way to see and hear and think more clearly,” she writes. “Slowing down, we make space to notice what’s going on, and noticing helps us make better choices.”

Curmudgeons, she says, may scoff at the idea of living by one word. Especially if they eschew resolution-making. But I am a died-in-the-wool curmudgeon, and I love it.

It doesn’t require a list of items to avoid: alcohol, ice cream, red meat, screaming, processed foods, or things to take on: jogging, meditation, kindness, Pilates. (Although, I am in my first days of trying Dry January. We’ll see how that goes.)

A thoughtful word and mindfulness

It only requires one thoughtful word—and I suppose mindfulness—paying attention to that word throughout the year.

You (and I) have so many words we can choose. Mary writes that some words her readers say they are adopting this year include gratitude, agreeable, mindful, adapt, laugh, look, listen, move, be.

When I read Mary’s column, I was in the midst of an end-of-year vacation. As I read her column, the word that popped into my head was calm because that’s the way I felt toward the end of my time away from work. I like feeling calm. Calm, to me, means the absence of stress. And I want that. So much.

As Women of the ELCA looks toward a triennial convention and gathering this summer and all the work it requires of staff, calm is the word I hope will guide me through the year. Or at least through the summer.

What is your word for 2020?

Terri Lackey is director for communication for Women of the ELCA. This updated Throwback Thursday blog first ran in January 2016.

Photo by Andreea Andrei from Pexels

*Mary discovered the one-word idea was popularized by an artist Ali Edwards on her blog, One Little Word.

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  • Raeann Purcell says:
    1/12/2020

    I’ve thought about this since reading your blog… I think my word should be listen, listen to others to hear and not to think of what I am going to say; listen to my body when it tells me I need self care and most of all, listen to God. Thank you for your words to inspire me to think about this.

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    • Terri Lackey says:
      1/13/2020

      That’s nice Raeann. I like that a lot. I’m happy to accept a blog from you on why you are choosing the word listen.

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  • Terri Lackey says:
    1/10/2020

    Lots of words to choose from. Those should last till the end of my life!

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  • Linda Post Bushkofsky says:
    1/9/2020

    Picking one word to guide you through the year is very popular among those who bullet journal. Selecting a word for the year is akin to making an intention, living into that which one desires. Here’s a piece by a woman who bullet journals from a couple of years ago that addresses this: https://thepetiteplanner.com/word-year-ideas-bullet-journal/ As she says, a bullet journaler would likely place the word at the beginning of the new year’s journal for reference.

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