Last Sunday, I took part in a birthday parade for a matriarch of my congregation who just turned 90. Mrs. P and her daughter stood on their front porch and waved as we all slowly drove by and waved out our car windows and honked our horns. I heard later that it took two hours for the whole parade to pass by!
In normal times, the congregation would have celebrated Mrs. P’s birthday with cake and punch in the parish hall after worship, and those same two hours would have been just about enough time for everyone to shake Mrs. P’s hand and kiss her cheek. But these aren’t normal times. The virus is still out there, with no known cure or vaccine yet, and it’s especially dangerous for people her age. We wished Mrs. P happy birthday from the street as she stood on her front porch because we don’t want to take any chances with her health.
I know you have someone like Mrs. P in your congregation, and maybe in your circle. Or maybe one of your congregation or circle is a cancer survivor, or has asthma or diabetes, or any of a dozen other conditions that make her more vulnerable to severe illness. Maybe it’s me. Maybe it’s you.
Our local bishop has sent out a long list of detailed guidelines for congregations to follow as they begin to plan a careful, cautious, slow path to re-convening in our church buildings as before. But no matter how careful the congregational leaders are, there are still plenty of people like Mrs. P (and me) who will be avoiding gatherings indefinitely. And that’s fine. Everyone respects that. We all agree that we want Mrs. P and everyone else to stay safe and to stay connected to the community.
That’s why the congregation is committed to keeping our online life going indefinitely, and that’s why we’re making such careful, cautious, detailed plans. Yes, it’s a hassle. Yes, it would be easier (and cheaper) to unplug the computers and throw open our doors right now, with no further ado. But we can’t do that. We have to be careful. Why?
Because we are our sisters’ keepers.
Audrey Novak Riley is director for stewardship for Women of the ELCA.
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Why? Because we are our sisters’ keepers – all our sisters.
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Jill, Please remember when your go in for your surgeries, your doctor is not the only physician in the room. The Great Physician will stand beside your bed and guide your doctor, He will not leave you. Myself and all your family in Christ are praying that you recover quickly
THANK YOU.
Jill
I worry that the worst is yet to come. We are letting our guard down. All this is going on to long. Then I remind myself, God is in this beside us, when we are weary and we are, lean on Him
I too struggle to concoct a meaningful way to celebrate important milestones.In the past 10 months I have been hospitalized several times with a joint replacement, repeated bronchitis and a week in the hospital with nonstop mini strokes. I missed covid 19, but also my birthday,30th anniversary, valentine’s day,spouse;s birthday, advent and easter celebrations, Xmas and thanksgiving. I’ just found a new church. Don’t know anybody.What to do when you are alone, can’t light a candle due to lung issues and are completely helpless for 6 weeks?.All I could think to do was make up my own prayer and say it to my husband. Aloud.
When I could, I wrote it down.Next year I plan to look at it on the same day and give thanks that I am better. We face 2 more surgeries in the coming months.
We’ll pray for you, Jill. Good luck with your upcoming surgeries.
I am a lot like Mrs.P, a little younger. I long to worship with my church family, pass the peace, and bring goodies for coffee hour, For many in our congregation the risk is too high for now. I know that our hearts and souls are bonded so tightly to each other that no pandemic or any other crises will separate us. We are in this together, and together we unite to pray, serve and love our Lord and each other. Peace and love to all my sisters and brothers in Christ
Thanks, Patricia — St Paul wrote that nothing (not even a virus!) can separate us from the love of God in Christ, and I take comfort in that, too.