Saying goodbye is part of life, and some goodbyes are more challenging than others. Just as we are culturally uncomfortable with the idea of death, we are uneasy with goodbyes and try to ignore them or look for easy ways out of them. But the intentional marking of the end of something – and the beginning of another thing – can be a real source of healing and hope for everyone involved. Facing and naming the emotions and tasks of leave-taking directly and asking for God’s help with this can be work that congregations can help families and individuals address.
There are many liturgical resources to draw from and many ways to craft a meaningful goodbye. With an intentional goodbye, you engage in the counter-cultural work of approaching the end of something with courage and hope.
Death and resurrection, endings and beginnings, goodbyes and hellos…these are not unfamiliar to us as Christians. We have resources for navigating these often difficult transitions together, whether it be a breakup, the end of employment, moving away, divorce, or dying. When we mark leave-taking with rituals, we provide space for healing, hope, and community support.
This message is excerpted from faith reflection “Rituals for saying (and meaning) goodbye” by Anne Edison-Albright in the May 27, 2016, Café online magazine. Today we commemorate Mark, the Evangelist.
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