Back when I started my ministry, I didn’t know I would be an ally to people who are LGBTQIA+. I didn’t know the blessing that this work would be in my life and in my ministry. I had no idea that I would discover that I am called and convicted by Scripture to do it.
Being a good ally takes more than good intentions. There are so many times I’ve gotten it wrong. I’ve spoken when I should have been quiet. I’ve used incorrect pronouns for someone who asked me to use new pronouns. I’ve explained things – just to prove I know something from the outside – to people who already know from the inside. Being a good ally is hard work. But it’s something my faith calls me to do. It’s something our faith calls us all to do.
Here are a few things I’ve learned along this path. Learn how to be present without proving your presence. Get to know the people we are journeying with and listen to their stories. And, when visible privilege lends me power to speak on behalf of the community I serve, I have the responsibility to do so.
This message is excerpted from “Blessed to be an ally” by Amanda Llewellyn in the June 2024 Café online magazine.
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