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Reflection Eight: Giving Daily Care to Caring Daily
Reflection one: God's abundance
Reflection two: God's grace
Reflection three: Others
Reflection four: Ourselves
Reflection five: Financial resources
Reflection six: God's creation
Reflection seven: Justice
Reflection eight: Caring daily
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Giving Daily Care to Caring Daily

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This reflection returns to the theme of stewardship as a way of life. Although the first discussion question invites group members to merely speculate on what it might have been like for Mary to have been present throughout the 33 years of Jesus' life on earth, do not treat this time lightly. It is likely to elicit some very rich and rewarding sharing among the women of your group. Then you will be able to move the group to contemplate their own faith journeys with God as a way of life.

Reading
The Birth and Death of Jesus
Luke 1:26–38 and John 19:25–27

Reflection
From the moment Mary was told she would be the mother of Jesus until the day Jesus charged the beloved disciple with the care of his mother at the hour of his death, Mary was present for her son. She embraced her relationship with God as a way of life from the beginning and she did not waver, even when it looked to everyone else as though all was lost.

Mary could have done otherwise. Unmarried at least at the start of her pregnancy, Mary could have abandoned the child at birth. She did not. When Jesus began his public ministry, some people feared that he was losing his mind (Mark 3:20-21). Still, Mary did not disown her son. When finally the crowds turned against Jesus, Mary remained faithful -- at the cross, at the grave, and beyond.

Our relationship with God is, like Mary's, a way of life. It is not a program that we follow for a few weeks. It is not a campaign that we join until the election is over. It is not a quick course in Christian ethics.

Our relationship with God, through good times and bad, through times of faith and times of fear, through sorrows and celebrations, defeats and accomplishments and changes, is a way of life. Just ask Mary.

Discussion

1.  What do you think it might have been like for Mary to be the mother of Jesus?
2.  What are the similarities and differences between your faith journey and your job, career, educational pursuits, hobbies, commitments to family, and church membership?
3.  When you think of your relationship with God as a way of life, what images does that bring to mind? What other "ways of living" have you embraced? How do they support or conflict with your relationship with God?
4.  Our congregations launch stewardship programs at budget time every year. How could or do these programs encourage stewardship as a way of life?
5.  What changes could you make in your life to convert personal stewardship from a program to a lifestyle? 

Prayer
God of our sojourn, you have invited us to walk with you. You have sustained us through difficulties; you have celebrated with us our successes and endured with us so many changes. We have embraced you and abandoned you and embraced you again, and you remain faithful. Bless our journey in faith with your peace, your comfort, your constancy. Amen

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