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Reflection Three: Giving Daily Care to Others
Reflection one: God's abundance
Reflection two: God's grace
Reflection three: Others
Reflection four: Ourselves
Reflection five: Financial resources
Reflection six: God's creation
Reflection seven: Justice
Reflection eight: Caring daily
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Giving Daily Care to Others

Background
loaves and fishIn Matthew 14 we read that 5,000 men, plus women and children, were fed on five loaves and two fish. For purposes of this reflection, think about that being 20,750 people. The feeding of 20,750 may be a new slant on a familiar Bible story for you. The numbers are calculated this way: We might speculate that perhaps 500 of those men were single or did not bring their families. That means that 4,500 of them did have their wives present — another 4,500 people — plus an average of 2.5 children per family or 11,250 children, for a total crowd of 20,750. Nothing is added to or taken from Jesus' miracle. Rather, this perspective might help you look at a very familiar text in a whole new way and recognize more fully God's kind of hospitality.

Reading
The Feeding of the 20,750
Matthew 14:15–
21

Reflection
With one exception, nobody thought there would be enough to go around. Even if the loaves were six-foot long party-size submarine sandwiches, the fish 40-pound tunas, and the disciples practiced FHB (Family Hold Back — as when unexpected guests drop in at dinner time), the five loaves and two fish would never feed 20,750 men, women, and children. After all, hospitality is one thing; miracles are another.

"Feed them," said Jesus. And feed them they did. Every last person there, including the disciples.

Most of us need only to pull something out of the freezer or make the weekly trip to the grocery store and, with a little planning, we're ready to feed ourselves and our families. We can even extend our hospitality to relatives and friends from time to time.

By the same token, most of us don't have 20,750 friends coming for dinner. We can manage, and even set out an occasional feast, because we've limited our hospitality to those within our relatively small circle of acquaintances.

Jesus practices and demonstrates a somewhat different approach to hospitality. Not only does he miraculously feed thousands; he also accepts all people, every day, regardless of class or status. No one is excluded from joining him at the table. The place is guaranteed; there is always room for one more.

Discussion

1.  "I'm not Jesus; I can't do miracles." How is that statement contrary to Jesus' attitude about hospitality?
2.  The practice of distributing Thanksgiving baskets would cease if we followed Jesus' approach to hospitality. What changes would have to happen in your community or congregation so that everyone could have a permanent, daily place at the table instead of being sent a basket once or twice a year?
3.  What attitudes, stereotypes, prejudices or fears prevent you from being more inclusive in your hospitality? What practical steps can you take to expand your practice of hospitality.

Prayer
Hospitable God, we know that you turn no one away. We also know that we are called to be your representatives on earth. Empower us with your own graciousness that we may make room at the table for any and for all. Amen

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