by Janice MillerPeople use many words
to describe Binh Rybacki.
Christian. Mother.
Wife. Executive. Refugee.
Award winner.
But none of these
express how the people
whose lives she has
touched feel about her.
After she returned to
her birth country of
Vietnam in 1993 and
found children working
as street peddlers,
beggars, and
prostitutes, Binh felt
called to improve their
lives.
In
1996, Binh and her
husband, Jack, members
of King of Glory
Lutheran Church in
Loveland, Colorado,
founded a humanitarian
organization dedicated
to serving the people of
Vietnam by showing them
hot to help themselves.
Through Children of
Peace International (COPI),
she has built a
worldwide network of
people who help support
the suffering poor in
Vietnam.
COPI provides funding
for 12 orphanages and
schools that serve more
than 5,000 children; it
organizes medical
mission trips to the
orphanages and to rural
Vietnamese villages; it
builds and supports
medical facilities,
provides scholarships
and micro-loans, and
facilitates adoptions.
I met Binh when my
husband, Dale, and I
adopted Vietnamese twins
in 1999 with her help.
We witnessed the
tremendous needs in her
native country and saw
her work to meet those
needs. Because of that,
we joined Binh's growing
family of fellow workers
in Vietnam: dale has
traveled on several
mission trips there.
What has touched our
lives the most, however,
is Binh's tremendous
faith in God as she has
faced struggles in her
life and in her work.
Is God real?
When Saigon fell to the
North Vietnamese in
1975, Binh, then 18, and
her family were able to
escape with the help of
the Americans. The
family was shuttled from
one refugee camp to
another until American
sponsors offered them
the opportunity to move
to Colorado. Here, Binh
attended Zion Lutheran
Church in Loveland,
Colorado, with her
sponsors.
At first, she had no
interest in being a
Christian. Her family
had been Buddhist for
eight generations. Binh
also struggled with the
idea that there could be
a God who would not save
her country, who would
send her to a foreign
land with virtually
nothing more than the
shirt on her back.
Still, she attended
church regularly and
heard sermon after
sermon. Eventually, to
challenge God, Binh
decided to be baptized.
"If Christ can do
something with me to
help the world, then
Christ must be real,"
she said. However, as
time went on, and she
went to the university,
married, and had
children, she did not
actively participate in
her church. "I was very
comfortable," she says.
"I didn't do anything to
fulfill my
responsibility as a
Christian. I signed up
to be a substitute
Sunday school teacher,
which everyone knows
will never really be
used."
A son's death
In 1987, life changed
for Binh. The second of
her three sons, Garrett,
fell serious ill. "When
nothing else is left,
then you go to God," she
said. "I told God, 'I'll
do anything, if you will
just let Garrett live.'"
But Garrett died, and
Binh blamed God. "Who
did I hate most?" she
asks. "God. I was so
busy blaming God for all
my sufferings and for
caring so little about
me. Yet God kept after
me. In 1993, God decided
that I needed to learn a
lesson."
That year, Binh
traveled to Vietnam as a
translator for a medical
team teaching cardiac
surgery. Seeing children
in the Vietnamese
hospital was almost more
than Binh could bear.
Every child reminded her
of Garrett. After one
particularly trying day,
Binh called her husband
and told him that she
was coming home. She
couldn't stand to see
any more children die.
Jack said, "All
right, I'll pick you up
at the airport. But
there's one thing you
must agree to: You can't
ever tell our boys not
to be quitters."
Binh was baffled. Her
husband explained, "Binh,
you're about to quit. If
you come home today, you
can't teach our boys how
not to quit. If you
agree, come home."
Binh stayed for the
rest of her scheduled
trip. There in the
country she had been
driven out of, she
finally saw God's grace
in bringing her family
to the United States.
She made her peace
with God and dedicated
her life to serving
Christ. She also found
one of her mother's
oldest friends, Sister
Tan, struggling to care
for 27 orphaned children
in an old monastery.
Binh gave her money to
help care for the
children. After
returning home, Binh
continued to send
donations to Sister Tan.
Personal sacrifice
Today
Binh is involved in the
work in Vietnam through
the humanitarian
organization she and
Jack founded, Children
of Peace International.
She treats each orphan
as her own child,
offering them love that
they may not have
received elsewhere.
She comforts the
children as the American
doctors and dentists she
brings to them examine
them. She cuts their
hair and scrubs and
sanitizes their
bedrooms. She has placed
many children with
adoptive families in
America, giving them an
opportunity for a better
life.
Binh, Jack, and their
sons, Preston and
Spencer, have made
personal sacrifices to
support the work in
Vietnam. The family
decided that Binh's
salary from her day job
would go directly to
COPI. They moved into a
smaller house. Binh
worked all day at her
job, then would come
home to take care of her
family. After the
children were in bed,
she worked late into the
night on projects for
COPI.
Binh said she values
the support of her
family. Jack, in
particular, has been a
great help. "He helps me
whenever I'm ready to
quit," she says. "He
tells me, 'Sure, you can
quit. Anytime you want
to. They'll just
starve.' He's got this
dry sense of humor, you
see."
In 2002, Binh was
laid off from her day
job. She was unsure how
she would continue to
help the children in
Vietnam. She discovered,
however, that God had
everything under
control. She was awarded
the Kiwanis
International World
Service Medal for her
work to help children,
an award that came with
a $10,000 grant.
A better life
The award opened many
doors for Binh. Since
receiving it, she has
served as keynote
speaker at many Kiwanis
conventions. "I do not
go to fundraise," she
says. "I go to teach. I
do not see my speaking
engagements as a vehicle
to raise money, but to
wake up souls. I always
tell people to care for
children somewhere.
If not in Vietnam, then
wherever they are."
Even so, she
encounters overwhelming
generosity. "God sent
that award and the
support that came with
it just before I lost my
entire salary. Now, I am
employed solely by God."
Binh also receives
support from an
international
organization that works
to stop trafficking of
women and children.
Thousands of Vietnamese
women and children have
been trafficked abroad
over the past decade,
mainly for disadvantaged
marriage, child
adoption, labor, and sex
slavery.
In April 2005, Binh
addressed this issue
before the United
Nations' Eleventh
Congress on Crime and
Justice in Bangkok,
Thailand. She has also
met with the Taiwan
Department of
Criminology to find a
way to stop trafficking
of women from Vietnam to
Taiwan.
While in Vietnam,
Binh works to save
children from being sold
into prostitution, even
purchasing children
herself. Once, while
walking on a beach, she
heard a girl struggling
and realized the girl
was being raped. With no
thought for her own
safety, Binh confronted
the rapist and demanded
that he let the girl go.
The man struck Binh,
breaking her nose. When
she told him that he had
just struck an American
citizen, he ran away. As
Binh comforted the
12-year-old girl, she
faced another angry man:
the pimp. Binh gave the
man $53, purchasing the
girl's freedom from a
life of forced
prostitution. The girl
has since lived in an
orphanage sponsored by
COPI.
The young woman who
years ago challenged God
to do something with her
to change the world has
learned a powerful
lesson. God has changed
the world through her as
she shares God's love
with others. Binh was
able to use her personal
struggles, first of
losing her homeland and
later her son, to bring
God's hope of a better
life to others still
suffering today.
Janice
Miller lives with her
family in Ooltewah,
Tenn.
Helping the vulnerable
At the Sixth Triennial
Convention of Women of
the ELCA in 2005,
delegates voted to
encourage local Women of
the ELCA units to
"expand their
involvement" in
addressing commercial
exploitation of children
and to work with
churches globally to
combat this problem. You
can find a resource on
this topic at
www.womenoftheelca.org/resources/dayfulloflight.html
To learn
about what Lutheran
Immigration and Refugee
Service (LIRS) is doing
specifically about the
issue of the trafficking
of children, go to
www.lirs.org/What/children/TCI.htm
For more
information about
Children of Peace
International, visit
www.childrenofpeace.org
This story first
appeared in the October
2006 issue of
Lutheran Woman Today
magazine. Used with
permission.